Fear of the unknown

Fear of the unknown

At least in relationships fear of 

the unknown and being all alone are 

one of the hardest parts of moving on, 

it is a paralyzing realization that you 

will no longer have another to help 

make your life decisions or to wake up 

with on a cold winter morning, leaving 

another because love is not there any

longer is hard because no matter how

you leave or when even why somebody 

will always get hurt more with the pain 

of a broken heart and most the time you 

still care we are still only human after all 

so all our emotions will consume them 

ranging from hate and anger even

sometimes violence to sorrow and

deep despair and even though no

one actually died except for the love

that you held they are still gone now from 

your life so grieving is our way to get 

through those situations I can tell you 

now from past experiences that no matter

how hard you try to be prepared for

the extreme sadness that comes on

strong causing tears to start to fall

for how long no one really knows for sure

then at some point, hate will take its

place with anger in your face so take a 

breath and count to ten do not do anything 

bad that would be a huge mistake and 

nobody ever really wants that. In the end 

nobody really wins when love has lost its

way and no matter how hard you

tried and all the nights you cried

there is nothing you can do so try to

enjoy the time that you had together

and know that when not if love leaves it

mark and your souls have danced

in the dark and your hearts once

beat as one those we loved the

most will always be in our memories so 

it is really up to you whether you want

to remember the good times or the bad 

let's just try to get along beside we have

enough hate already in this world

and life is just to damn short not to

at least all get along after all you did

love each other at some point.

Poet Richard M Knittle Jr.

A Poets's Journey